You may not have control, but you have influence: also known as your ability to effect the outcome. That outcome is often dictated by the disposition you carry from day to day. This is because regardless of your belief system, the energy we keep and the law of attraction are very real contributors to our survival.
Our ability to thrive is heightened if we allow the chances of it happening to increase. In other words, fostering behavior that is going to significantly improve the likelihood of a particular outcome taking place.
Good situations, outcomes, and even people generally gravitate toward positivity and constructiveness... It's for that reason that the law of attraction is very important when improving your chances for a quality outcome to play in your favor.
With that being said, I encourage you to identify your influence and evaluate how it's being used... Because it's only once you've become responsible and taken accountability for your influence that you can use it to your advantage.